My mission as a coach is to help couples divorce proof their marriage. I strive to help you rediscover your passions for each other and for life, communicate clearly and connect more on all levels in your relationship!

I help couples eliminate the unhealthy fighting, identify individual needs and gain the vocabulary and skill to vocalize those needs, get to know your partner on a deeper level so that you can understand the intention, motivation and response patterns to every situation. At the end of our time together, you will have the tools to cut through issues like butter, smile more and feel like you did when you first started dating.

I combine 38 years of life experience, 2 certifications, including a Gottman marriage coach certification and over 1,500 hours of coaching experience to help you recognize the unhealthy cycles in your relationship and develop tools to reverse those habits, create new ones and build a relationship you can be proud of.  A relationship is only as healthy as the least healthy individual in that relationship and to have an exceptional marriage, you first have to be striving to be an exceptional individual. To reach for that exception, tools have to be given and applied.

Who you marry is one of the most important decisions of your life. You wouldn’t have made that decision if you didn’t think it was right but as we go along, circumstances, expectations and only knowing what we know alter that relationship. 

When you coach with me, you can have security in knowing you are one of only 6 couples being coached by me. I keep my roster small so that you can have full access to me through voxer support between coaching sessions, better chances of my calendar matching yours and more of my energy to meet your needs. If you want a coach in your back pocket if you need and hands off when you don’t, you’ve come to the right place!