Happy Thanksgiving (if you’re in the states)!
Black Friday is upon us! For some, that’s exhilarating and for others, it’s anxiety inducing.
I got you. These are not ads, just simply products that I absolutely love and that Moe and I use in our own marriage. Links are accessible through the title of each.
These scratch off books are so much fun for dates and in the bedroom! There are two different book options that are very detailed in the options they provide. For example, if you’re limited on time and want something at home, there’s an option for that. If you want something you can leave the house for or one that fits your budget better, the icons show which possibilities would be good for that too! The books offer a place to post a picture, so you have a little photo book when you’re done as well! Click the above to check out these fun books and other products they have!
I love what I do and I’m also a firm believer in having my own coach and mentors to learn from as well! If anyone, even a coach, tells you they have marriage completely figured out, they’re lying. However, that doesn’t mean we can’t all learn and grow together. Casey and Meygan are some of the best in this industry and I’m a member of their monthly membership as well! They have fantastic videos, worksheets, and resources. I also love them because they’re big promoters of connection as well and have many resources on that just as I do.
3. This monthly budget notebook
My husband and I have a shared google sheet we use but this planner is the best thing ever! I’ve promoted clever fox planners for a long while now and even though they won’t give me a discount code or affiliate link, I still love them! So many of the couples I work with have a spender and a saver in their relationship. Almost all of them say they don’t have a budget, don’t know where to start with a budget and all agree they need a budget. This budget planner will help you start, walk you through and get you on track to financial freedom as long as you’re using it consistently!
4. Improving Your Sex Life
Do you think foreplay is only kissing? Do you rub her bean like you’re getting a stain out of the couch? Is she really getting off or just ready to get you off of her? Is she playful, confident and spontaneous for him? Vanessa and Xander are a married couple that offer videos, courses, and coaching specifically around sex. Vanessa is a sex therapist and one of the best professionals in the business, in my opinion. Straight forward, educational and helpful- this couple is guaranteed to help you in ways you never thought possible! I love that they address how important emotional connection is to intimacy and not just the act of sex. Anyone can have sex. It takes effort, education and intention to be intimate.
5. My new program for husbands only called Simplified.
C’mon. You had to know that at least ONE of these products would be my own, right? It’s this one because it’s one that I’m most passionate about. I think husbands get a bad taste in their mouths because of their conditioning around emotions. They feel like they’re doing their best but because of fundamental differences between men and women, their “best” doesn’t seem “good enough”. I want to change that taste and the effort to be a little more concentrated and a lot more rewarding for both parties in the marriage! Introducing…. Simplified!
A 6 week, 6 session approach to loving your wife well.
Speak her love language
Validate emotions & experiences (even if you don’t agree with them).
Connect with her on a deeper level
Get the respect you want most
Express yourself and communicate better
Hear the message she’s communicating (even if the behavior seems “dramatic”)
Stay engaged in the conversation/heated discussion even when it feels like you want to run away.
In coaching couples, many of the husbands say that they wish they would’ve started with something like this. Committing to a 7 month course seems daunting and exhausting but 6 weeks to start seeing results at a fraction of the cost? No problem! Until Monday 11/28, you get $100 off for Black Friday! I’m only taking 10 men on for this program right now so when it’s full, it’s full until 2023!