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I’ve waited 2 years to post this!!

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Six years ago, I started having consultations with couples that were much the same as Moe and I were in the beginning of our marriage. Every one of them said one or a multitude of the same things. “We’re struggling, one or both unwilling to actually have ongoing sessions with a professional, horrible experiences with therapists, money is tight, finding the time with small kids and/or schedules is a mess.” You get the idea. 

I wanted to do something about it!

Afterall, coaching couples and helping them problem solve is my purpose! I wanted to help but what were the main pain points that couples needed help with that didn’t require a hands-on approach?

For the last three years, I’ve toyed with the idea of creating a container that couples could do a self-study overhaul of their marriage. I went through the Gottman Institute and gained another certification to help advance my own skills to better equip me to be your coach. I’ve thrown ideas around, talked to couples I was working with, laid awake at night praying, overthinking and rethinking and done extensive, hard-core research on these very topics.

Now, I’m SO EXCITED to reveal the baby that I’ve been creating and testing on couples for the last two years solid!

INTRODUCING:

CONNECTED AND COMMITTED!!

 

A six-week self-study course that can be done in the comfort of your own home, at your leisure, as if you were sitting across from me in my office, getting 1:1 coaching! 18 lessons, videos, worksheets, quizzes, resources and tools that you have lifetime access to and will help you over and over no matter what stage of life or marriage you are in!

 

Throughout six transformative weeks, you’ll learn:
✅ Exact steps to establishing emotional safety in your marriage
✅ The difference between your needs and your partner’s needs
✅ Effective communication techniques to avoid conflict spirals
✅ Steps to keep intimacy alive, even during busy seasons
✅ Strategies to resolve conflicts without resentment
✅ How to show up as a better partner, every single day

Connected & Committed is not just another marriage course! It’s a proven framework to help you and your spouse reconnect, communicate, and commit to a love that lasts.

The best part?
The video teaching alone would cost you more than $1800, even if you have insurance.
The resources and tools are worth over $500 just themselves.
The quizzes, resources, worksheets, etc would never be given to you in a therapist’s office. Let alone the ability to do this course on your own time, without childcare, at 5 AM or 10 PM.
Is this going to cost you the $2300 it’s worth? NOPE!

This course is only $497 with lifetime access!

What if you get into it and find out you need a little more help?
No problem. Shoot me an email! Let’s problem solve and talk about options for getting you into my office hours, 1-2 sessions in your 6 weeks, or a full 1:1 coaching course!

What if your partner isn’t willing to do this course with you? 
Do it on your own! I had to do a LOT of work on my own during my first marriage (5 whole years worth!) and again for at least 2 years in the beginning of my marriage with Moe. You know what? It was my growth and my dedication to making our marriage work that inspired Moe to start working with our coach too! You can’t make a marriage work on your own but you can absolutely do a lot of good and have an insane amount of improvement by doing the work yourself!

If this is coming to you at a time where you need it most, if you’re ready to dive in and start strengthening your marriage, click this link and get started TODAY!

Have a friend that would benefit from this course? Forward this email to them!

Still have questions? Reply to this email! I’d love to help you!

Your coach,

Kameran Alareqi

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What Are You Saying?

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“Do you love me?” 
“You never show me that you want me.” 
“Do you even want to be married anymore?” 

You may be thinking, “OF COURSE I LOVE YOU!” but you’re not one to really show your emotions. 

For men, this is more typical than women as men are often conditioned as they’re growing up to never express emotion. Emotions are seen as weak, unnecessary and unneeded. Though there are some women who have been conditioned to believe the same.

In reality, everyone has emotions. How we express those emotions can be healthy or unhealthy. They can send a message to our partner. 

However, if they remain unexpressed, that also sends a message to our partner. Most of the time, that message isn’t a positive one. 

Even though the feelings of love, adoration, desire and gratitude for their partner are felt, when they aren’t expressed, the other partner interprets that differently. The partner who isn’t told they are loved, wanted and adored perceives their spouse as being resentful, having no love at all, and not wanting to be married. They feel rejected and after long bouts of this, they feel emotionally disconnected as well. Thus, the negative spiral starts. 

People need to hear and see that they are loved, wanted, respected, adored, needed, appreciated, and accepted for who they are. 

That sounds like:

“Thank you for doing the dishes tonight. I appreciate the extra help.”
“I love you so much. I’m grateful you’re mine.” 
“Thank you for the way you provide for our family and the way you show up in this world.”
“You are such an amazing man/woman.”
“I don’t know what I would do without you.”

The biggest part to this is that your actions match your words. Do you show them and tell them? 

Allison Krause was wrong. You don’t say it best when you say nothing at all. It’s a romantic concept but doesn’t work long term.

If you haven’t told your partner how much you love and appreciate them lately, do it today. It may be exactly what they need to hear in this moment and will certainly better your relationship. 

Your coach,
Kameran