And for the love of summer, quit apologizing for how you look! If people are coming to see you based on what you look like (or your house for that matter) they need to make an appointment and you need new friends.
Did you choose your career or was your career chosen for you based on a set of circumstances? Or maybe based on someone telling you that you needed to “just pick something and get out of college”? If you had it all to do over, would you choose something else? What would it be?
DO YOU LOVE YOUR JOB? ARE YOU PASSIONATE ABOUT IT? Is your lack of passion the reason you don’t have the life you’ve dreamed of? Are you dreaming at all?